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By Charlie, Apr 18 2019 04:28PM


Everyone hears about love at first sight, everyone also knows that there is no such thing and if I'm honest I agree however I do believe in knowing when something is right within minutes of knowing or meeting someone.


On the very rare occasion, someone will walk into your life and you will know immediately that you have a connection with them. It may only be as good friends or it may turn into something more, but when you know you know.


How do I know this? Because last year I saw someone and immediatly wanted to know more about them. I hadnt met him, but something told me I wanted to. From the first time we spoke I knew I wanted to get to know more about him.


When a connection is right it is magical, it's taken me 44 years to find my soul mate, but I've found him now and, no matter what anyone says or does, we are stronger than anyone will ever know.


From the first kiss until the end of time I know with all my heart that we will be together, so for anyone out there that doesn't believe in soulmates, in someone that will love you unconditionally, in someone that will want everyting you want, in someone that finsishes you sentences or says them before the words have left your mouth, I can promise you this, there is someone out there for you and you will find them.


I found my soulmate when I wasn't even looking, he makes me so happy, I never thought it was possible to be this happy or this in love with someone, but now I know what true love is and I am never letting it go.


It may take time, but eventually you will find yours too and when you do, don't ever let them go xx



By Charlie, Mar 8 2019 10:17PM



Have you ever got carried away and believed something is true when its not?


Is this because you don't want to acknowledge the full story or acknowledge there is more to a situation than there actually is? Or is it because you want the true fairytale and will ignore the facts to get it even if it is only for a short time.


We all throw ourselves into situations without knowing all the facts or without understanding how we will feel when the result of a situation suddenly becomes very real.


Sometimes it can be things we know, but we haven't taken the time to understand how that would effect us.


Then suddenly something is said that makes it all very real, your skin goes cold and your stomach churns and you don't know what you are going to do.


Can you get over this new realisation or is it just to hard to deal with. When you realise that someone has what you will never have it can hit you like a freight train, even if you knew it was coming. When it finally arrives it takes you totally by surprise and you don't know which way to run.


This is not about fight or flight, this is about coping with one of the biggest challenges in your life and being able to continue down the road without any resentment.


The question is, can you do it or is it just too hard?

When Reality Hits


Have you ever got carried away and believed something is true when its not?


Is this because you don't want to acknowledge the full story or acknowledge there is more to a situation than there actually is? Or is it because you want the true fairytale and will ignore the facts to get it even if it is only for a short time.


We all throw ourselves into situations without knowing all the facts or without understanding how we will feel when the result of a situation suddenly becomes very real.


Sometimes it can be things we know, but we haven't taken the time to understand how that would effect us.


Then suddenly something is said that makes it all very real, your skin goes cold and your stomach churns and you don't know what you are going to do.


Can you get over this new realisation or is it just to hard to deal with. When you realise that someone has what you will never have it can hit you like a freight train, even if you knew it was coming. When it finally arrives it takes you totally by surprise and you don't know which way to run.


This is not about fight or flight, this is about coping with one of the biggest challenges in your life and being able to continue down the road without any resentment.


The question is, can you do it or is it just too hard?


By Charlie, Mar 8 2019 03:20AM



Do you ever find yourself waking up at exactly the same time or after the exact same number of hours sleep for days on end?


Do you ever believe that there is a greater force controlling not only your sleep but your life?


There is...... Fate!!!


Everything on this earth happens for a reason, from the weather to the turning of the tides, to the sun coming up and going down each day. You can't always predict the outcome of these things, but they all happen for a reason.


Sometimes that reason may not be one that feels right when it happens, for example the passing of a loved one, but it happens for a reason. You may never know the reason, but there is one.


So if everything happens for a reason, why are we given brains and the ability to execute our own actions. That's due to the fact that even though we believe we are controlling those actions however the outcomes will be influenced by others, may that the weather, another person, a traffic accident that makes you late for that important meeting, someone or something will impact it.


So if something happens today, think about why it's happened, could you have changed the outcome? The answer is No, as it has already happened, but you can always learn for next time.


Be kind, think about your actions and how they effect others, every action has a reaction. It may not be your action or even your reaction, but every single action you make impacts others. So please be mindful and care and respect your fellow humans and the world that we are so fortunate to inhabit.



By Charlie, Mar 6 2019 05:23PM

There are times in your life when things happen and you can't see a way forward!


There are times in your life when all the world appears to be against you!


There are times in your life when you feel trapped with no where to turn!


These times are put in our lives to enable us to truly appreciate our self worth. To see how we cope, they are there as a challenge. A challenge to ensure that you cover the whole spectrum of feelings available to you.


You need to rise up to the challenge. Only you can change your future, only you can start a new path and change the direction of the current one.


What's the worst that can happen? If you are so trapped and so sad, then the worst thing that can happen is nothing changes. If nothing changes you change your path again.


It's difficult to get it right first time, but when you finally get it right and you start to rise up, start to move forward, start to believe you can be better, then it's the best feeling in the world.


Only you can change the path that you are on, only you can make the changes to your life. No one is going to do it for you! They may help you, but you need to take the first step into your new future and you just never know what it might bring.

By Charlie, Mar 3 2019 05:08AM


When someone knows you so well they will do whatever is needed to make you happy. They will go out of their way to make sure you are ok. They work hard to make your relationship work.


If you are ever lucky enough to find that person then make sure that you do the same for them everyday. Relationships take work and they will only work if you work at them constantly.


That said, if you are ever actually lucky enough to find the one person who doesn't have to try to make you happy, the person that just by looking at you makes your heart sing. The person who makes you laugh everyday, the person who knows automatically that something is wrong and knows exactly how to make it better.


If you are lucky enough to find your solemate, the one who you connect with on a whole other level, the one that is your future, that knows what you are going to say, that loves you no matter how much makeup you have on or how insanely crazy your hair is, then don't ever doubt them, love them, be happy and live the life you have always been meant to have. Don't let anything get in the way


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